Want Better Sex? Try Ben Wa Balls

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Did you know that your vagina can be tightened through a completely natural process and without any surgical process? Most women lose elasticity of their vaginal muscles after child birth, and as the muscles lose their tone, interest in sex nosedives. Older women also may face a similar kind of situation post menopause and as a direct effect lose interest in sex altogether. Change in hormonal equation directly affects the vaginal muscles too, and can lead to urine incontinence. (The inability to hold in urine and pass it involuntarily is called urine incontinence).

Kegel exercise is a natural process of tightening the vaginal and pelvic floor muscles by clenching and unclenching them. It is a simple enough exercise, but it feels too inconsequential to actually remember to do it. I know, for one, since I always forget to do my Kegels during the day. Despite them being easy enough to do while one is working around the house or sitting at her office desk tapping away at her keyboard, we more often than not neglect doing these exercises. I have thought long and hard enough to come to a conclusion as to why we women forget doing the kegels. In my opinion it stems from a culture rooted deep within us women to neglect ourselves and put others’ needs before ours. But Kegels are helpful in more ways than one, and it is a must for all women to perform them.

Use of Ben Wa balls

Adding a little bit of incentive to the process lets me have fun while I exercise my pelvic muscles. This is where Ben Wa balls come in. They have been used for hundreds of years, and their origin dates back to 500 AD. They were then used by Japanese women to pleasure their men during intercourse. Soon enough, the ladies discovered the effectiveness of these Geisha balls in toning and exercising the pelvic muscles. That using these was also sexually stimulating was a bonus they weren’t going to let go of easily. Thus began the use of ben wa balls and today they come in a variety of sizes and weights to help women tone their vajajays.

How To Do Kegels With Ben Wa Balls

Doing your kegels with ben wa balls is fun, though it takes a bit of practice keeping those in. So while you are busy squeezing your vag muscles to keep the balls in, you are already doing your kegels! You’d be clenching your muscles to keep them from falling out, and the stronger your muscles get, lesser are the chances of the balls shooting out of their hiding place.

You can walk around and do your household chores, go to work with the balls inside you, and virtually do anything while you do your kegels with ben wa balls!

Ben Wa Balls Help In Having Better Sex

With the tightening of the muscles comes more control over your pelvic floor muscles, shooting up the pleasure meter during sex. Tighter muscles also mean chances of multiple orgasms and longer lasting ones too!

There’s nothing to lose when you do use Ben Wa balls, and only pleasure to gain. Pick your variety – glass, silicone, metal, vibrating, non-vibrating or any other variation that catches your fancy – and get squeezin!

5 Reasons to Buy Sex Toys Online


Have you ever thought of buying your first vibrator and then shelved the idea for later? With the advent of Fifty Shades of Grey sex toys have been able to shed their taboo to quite a great extent. They have come out of the seedy shops hidden away in forgotten alleys and are sold today from proper brick and mortar stores in busy shopping areas. One can walk into any of these shops and choose from a wide range of displayed products and also talk to the knowledgeable staff out there.

Whips, floggers, vibrators, sex furniture, anal sex toys… you name it and the shop is likely to have it. Though, some shops due to constraints of space are unable to stock a wide array of products. This is a limitation many stores have to face and as a customer your choices get limited too. Shift to online buying and many of these woes are taken care of on their own.

Shopping online has come of age and you can buy almost anything that you want without walking out of your house and at any hour you choose. No need to rush out of work because the shop will close early or pushing through hordes of other shoppers. Buying on the Internet has its many benefits over buying your first sex toy from a retail store. Listed here are some of them.

Endless Choices

One of the biggest advantages of buying your vibrator online is that you get umpteen numbers of choices. And it is not limited to products alone. But you can even browse different sites before making your purchase decision! There is virtually every size, shape, make and brand available online. Your local sex toy store will have many choices, but you can bet your last dime, they won’t have as many choices as an online store. Browse through different sections for the kind of toy you want to buy, or visit niche sites that sell the exact kind of toy you need. Some sellers sell only BDSM stuff, some are entirely into vibrators for women, while some sell kinky and naughty clothing online. Select your pick and get clicking! You can try out some sex toys at: www.cupidboutique.com

Buy Anytime

Online sex stores cater to customers round the clock making it easier for you to browse at your own time and pace. Not to mention the comfort of your home. No need to adhere to the opening hours of your local store; cut in the line and checkout at your own pace. Buying online breaks geographical barriers and makes shopping easier. Share links with your partner and let them know what you want for your birthday this year!

Provides Anonymity

If you can walk into a store and browse through sections of weird looking objects that aim to get you a stronger orgasm, discuss these with a complete stranger (read the salesperson) and pay for it at the billing desk, then you are one of the lucky few. Most people feel embarrassed to look through personal stuff in front of others let alone discussing the features of the product. Privacy is guaranteed when you buy a sex toy online. Get it delivered to your doorstep in unlabelled plain packing boxes, so your nosey neighbor won’t find out what you bought.

Lower Prices

Sex toys sold online are cheaper than the ones bought at brick and mortar stores. Online retailers can source your toy directly from the manufacturer eliminating the chain of middlemen, making the items cheaper. The benefit is passed directly on to you, the customer.

Helpful Online Reviews

Chances are that whichever toy you choose to buy, it has already been used by someone else. Which is why, it is easier to find an honest review of the product before you buy it. Look up different reviews, post questions about your doubts to the reviewer and you are more likely to get detailed information from sources more than one.

Also, did we mention that the entire process can be completed with you only wearing pajamas?

Twerking Butt – The Future Has Come

Twerking ButtThe future is NOW? The future of Cybersex, that is. It has arrived. The most immersive experience one can expect from a sex toy is here with Pornhub’s new Twerking Butt. The experts at adult video sharing site got together with the ones at Topco Sales, and together they made male masturbation a lot easier and very cyber-y.

The best of sci fi in sexual stimulation with actual twerking movement is here to rock a man’s world. Only, it isn’t fiction any more. It’s a HARDCORE reality (excuse the pun please). For, the cyberskin clad female butt will twerk at a customized pattern and speed at your will.

As the name suggests, the Twerking Butt is a replica of the female derriere and sports two orifices, one simulating the ass, the other the vagina. Both textured tunnels are designed to feel like the real deal, and who can give up the temptation to have sex without having to actually cuddle up after the act. Guess what, the insides even warm up to a toasty 98.6 degrees F, simulating a woman’s love tunnel to the T.

That’s what we call Cyber sex served on a platter, with a cherry on top. And the cherry is an App for smartphones, aptly named TwerkingButt. Download it onto your phone (works on iOS and Android) and start playing preloaded videos or add your favorite ones from your personal collection. Ms Twerking Butt will yield to your needs solely. Heck, she even twerks at your command!

Comes in 2 variations

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Who is the Twerkiest of them all?

The Twerking Butt comes in two different variations – the Classic and the Deluxe package. Both versions of this saucy package are controlled by the downloaded App, massage your meat popsicle, vibrate on command and make the most explosive cyber sex experience possible for you. Covered in genuine cyberskin that feels like you are inside a real person, warm insides and pattern adjustment via the app means the future has come. The 3D VR headset plays your favorite video, and coupled with the twerking butt itself, the experience is likely to be one you will get addicted to very soon.

There’s one difference between the Classic and the Deluxe package. The Classic version doesn’t twerk. Sure it vibrates and lets you set the pattern and pace of the stimulation, but for a Mia Khalifa twerking sesh you gotta chekc out the Deluxe version of this wonder joy toy.

What Else Comes With the Futuristic Sex Toy?

The package includes items that you require to complete the experience and also care for your Twerkign Butt.

  • Power adapter
  • Cable
  • VR Headset for life like experience
  • Water jet for cleaning
  • Storage bag

The Twerking Butt comes clad in a black thong, so Ms. T Butt doesn’t flash her assets all the time, and you can keep her clean. Store in the bag provided for long term use. If you are using lube – which you should be using – go for a water based lube. That’s the safest bet. Also a good anti-bacterial toy cleaner will keep your masturbator in good shape.

Go ahead, hold the future in your hands and make use of your virtual reality experience to the fullest!